That's why I say go to the tape. I have had shows where me or another were down in the mix like the video but it was an accident. Anyone mixing then listening to the video would have profusely apologised but its just part of the problem of on stage mixing. One time my bass player who was mixing forgot to un pad the lead singer for most of a set. He felt horrible. The singer was pisse and hurt his voice but didnt blame him really. It may be part of the reason he quit later but we all understood the potential problems. The singer had the option to take over mixing but wouldn't do it. When a band splits $200 there's no room for a sound guy.I bar we play has a sound guy and things still get screwed up. I think the foh sounded good but I still had to play blind (deaf) because he wanted stage vol so low and he disappeared me in the monitors.